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peachbeigeblue | I know I owe some people readings and I will definitely make time for it the next couple days. I've been busy with work and hanging out with my dream man. He's wanted to hang out everyday since I met him but I couldn't tonight since I'm going out of state for work tomorrow. ANYWAYS. he already brought up being boyfriend-girlfriend. Technically we are but I don't think it will be real until we've known each other longer and it's on Facebook. THE GOOD STUFF: I'm on the outside. He told me his birth time was 2:00 so keep that in mind with his asc/vertex. I definitely thought he was an Aries rising even before i knew so the ascendant itself is definitely correct. Moon conjunct moon is obviously very nice. I haven't been intimate with him yet but we've had sleepovers and the SNUGGLING, people. His sun conjunct my Venus is also very nice, very fun communication being in gemini. My sun moon midpoint is conjunct my Venus a touch closer to his sun. What do you guys think? Astro? tarot? |
LoadedPistil | MARS VENUS CONJUNCTION!! I'm sold!!!! LOL I'm jealous :-/ I have Mars Venus Trine and it isn't everything. The sex is to die for, if I may be honest. Be back later with some tarot!! ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra |
peachbeigeblue | ahhh thank you!! Yeah I am very very attracted to him. I've had mars Venus conjunct before and it was cool but I imagine this is more ideal since I was the mars in that. |
LoadedPistil | Everything in the spread says fast commitment. Hierophant, Chariot, Four of Wands. I asked his he will publicly commit to you. A resounding YES in this spread! ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra |
imeanj | @peach I think he is your ideal because of your Vertex close placement with his Sun. Recently, I had it with a guy's Venus - YUM! Your Pluto also adds to the obsession, be careful with the Sun/Neptune opposition though. Not to lead him on. And the oppositions in the composite - I think that Venus oppose Saturn also has a positive manifestation at times, just takes work... Good luck and hope this is helpful! |
littlecloud | This, for me, is not a good relationship, it's not something I would want, that of course is not how you should feel at all. My reason for saying this is because of the oppositions in the synastry. It looks like it can start and get to deep too fast. For me this intensity is a no no, it has never played out well for me. That's just my experience. Now what I will say to you is beware of this, and be careful. His Sun, Mercury, and Mars fall in opposition to your Saturn/Uranus, this is generational but still troublesome. He definitely feels a strong pull to you since your planets affecting him are mostly the outer planets. Just that mars opp saturn/uranus is very volatile. At first it's this strong attraction and pull but later becomes something that drags you down. As saturn you may not realize that you will sometimes limit his actions. Maybe not on purpose but in a way that isn't great. Throw Uranus in that mix and you have a wild card of unpredictability. At least to him. Likely arguments. I had a mars/uranus hard aspect in a relationship once and it was terrible. Granted he was terrible too but it can manifest in explosive arguments. Likely due to holding things in and then out of nowhere, Mt. Saint Helen. The composite looks better but I say establish boundaries early. Especially in the manner of which you communicate with each other. If it makes you uncomfortable, and you feel somehow unsafe then stop that action then and there. Don't let it build up. The oppositions to your pluto will have a combined effect of possessiveness and jealousy on each other most often unprecedented. Other than that I'm happy you have found someone that excites you |
asclibrasagsun | Why does it have to be on Facebook for it to be considered a real relationship? Is Facebook just taking over everyone's lives now?Sounds pretty pathetic to me- not saying this to you directly but if this is what the majority of individuals think then it is really sad... |
LoadedPistil | If he's not on Facebook, he's not my man. I have been on Facebook 6 years. I'll talk about him, but ain't no pictures. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra |
littlecloud | quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Why does it have to be on Facebook for it to be considered a real relationship? Is Facebook just taking over everyone's lives now?Sounds pretty pathetic to me- not saying this to you directly but if this is what the majority of individuals think then it is really sad...
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peachbeigeblue | Thanks guys. I'm glad I didn't go further than him. We had a fight the other night when I was away on business and he started being distant and now I haven't heard from him all today. Unfortunately for me littleclouds (and I thank you for that) interpretation seems accurate. Thank you all for your time. I will update you if anything changes. |
littlecloud | He's got Chiron right on your IC too so that's really painful in a natal chart let alone a synastry chart. I can see this relationship being meaningful and profound in a way that makes you grow but I"m not sure about it being long lasting. |
RunAroundScreaming | Venus - pluto double whammy Ah he'll be back (No wonder he's ur dream guy) Venus conjunct mars, moon conjunct venus opposite pluto.... Then sun mercury and mars are opposite saturn and uranus the two most toxic planets yuck. This wi definitely be on and off. I do wish the composite were stronger, which is what would guarrantee it for me that it's going to be long lasting or at least stay friends. At least u do have a semisextile Ls but that isn't enough to keep this going for a long time imo. Enter at your own risk. It'll be profound and a good experience for you if u decide to go thru with it but it will be on and off I do feel he will be back though. How cod he resist, with that synastry. |
LoadedPistil | quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: Thanks guys. I'm glad I didn't go further than him. We had a fight the other night when I was away on business and he started being distant and now I haven't heard from him all today. Unfortunately for me littleclouds (and I thank you for that) interpretation seems accurate. Thank you all for your time. I will update you if anything changes.
You're a Leo. We always feel that 1 day makes a difference. Trying to explain the same thing to someone else. I am the pot. Kettle, please relax. ...and his Venus Bi-Quintiles my Pluto. He comes back, too. |
peachbeigeblue | Yeah thanks for all your help guys. I still haven't heard from him and at this point I'm not sure i should want to. Besides knowing he's okay. I ll find someone someday |
littlecloud | Dare I ask what happened? |
peachbeigeblue | quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: Thanks guys. I'm glad I didn't go further than him. We had a fight the other night when I was away on business and he started being distant and now I haven't heard from him all today. Unfortunately for me littleclouds (and I thank you for that) interpretation seems accurate. Thank you all for your time. I will update you if anything changes.
Pretty much this. I think he was a player to be honest. Or something like that. I just kinda got mad because I saw red flags and I was probably more mad at myself I fell for it initially.
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LoadedPistil | Geminis always feel like players. No new news here. |
littlecloud | quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: Pretty much this. I think he was a player to be honest. Or something like that. I just kinda got mad because I saw red flags and I was probably more mad at myself I fell for it initially.
Do you mind going into a little more detail? I remember in the Lenormand reading I did for you there was Whip followed by Man, which I took to mean as a strong sexual attraction (another card lead me to that as well) to this man but now I'm wondering if his words were 'lashing' with you. Like did he speak quickly out of anger and say things just to hurt you? |
peachbeigeblue | quote: Originally posted by littlecloud: Do you mind going into a little more detail? I remember in the Lenormand reading I did for you there was Whip followed by Man, which I took to mean as a strong sexual attraction (another card lead me to that as well) to this man but now I'm wondering if his words were 'lashing' with you. Like did he speak quickly out of anger and say things just to hurt you?
No, I think I was the person with the temper. I meant to tell you and I really hope you're wrong. But as of this week my EXBOYFRIEND is my new boss. He worked 45 minutes away an he just got transferred. I just found out last week and i initially couldn't remember the thread. I just really don't want to be a secret romance there. He cheated on me in the past. We get along fine now since that was almost 2 years ago. We are actually good as friends but yeah - that reading was definitely about that. |